Honoring the Spirit of Jocko
Jocko's vibrant spirit touched the lives of many, and his involvement in various organizations showcased his commitment to equity and inclusivity.
Joaquin “Jocko” Fajardo’s Memorial Service and Celebration of Life began at one of Washington, D.C.’s most visible and inclusive religious institutions and culminated in a festive gathering to toast memories of his countless contributions to the local community.
Friends of the Jocko Fajardo Family
Saturday, November 4, 2023
10:30 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. — Memorial Service, Foundry United Methodist Church, 1500 16th Street, NW
1 to 3 p.m. — Post-service Celebration of Life, Hook Hall, 3400 Georgia Avenue, NW
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JockoMade Music
Jocko’s passion for life extended to his passion for music. The music today includes songs that Jocko loved, that he often sang (loudly), that gently remind us of all that he was, and that honor him and our memory of him. Jocko took comfort in music, a part of his quest for the sublime and a search for anything that could match his blazing spirit and all he had to offer the universe - whether poignant, dramatic, philosophical, or uplifting. He could lose his mind over a Sondheim lyric in one moment, cry over the power of Judy Garland’s voice in another, and finish it out with a Whitney dance off. These songs are a tribute to his power, his magic, the depth of his kindness, his romance, his purposefulness, his dedication to creating a home where everyone was welcome, and his yearning for a better world. And that we all miss him, we really really miss him. Jocko was our dreamer who made the world, and our worlds, better - more joyful and more beautiful. May his memory be a blessing and may this music be a reminder of him.
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Smile
by Diana RossSongwriters: Charlie Chaplin, John Turner, Geoffrey Parsons
“Smile, though your heart is aching…”
The Man That Got Away
by Judy GarlandSongwriters: Gus Kahn, Walter Donaldson
“There is nothing sadder than the one-woman man looking for the man that got away…”
Nature Boy
by Natalie ColeSongwriter: eden ahbez
"The greatest thing you'll ever learn Is just to love and be loved in return"
Take Me to the World
by Judy CollinsSongwriter: Stephen Sondheim
“Take me to the world - somewhere I can walk for miles. I'll hold your hand and know I'm not alone”
Any Place I Hang My Hat is Home
by Barbra StreisandSongwriters: Johnny Mercer, Harold Arlen
“There's a voice in the lonesome wind…
“I'm going where a welcome mat is - no matter where that is - 'cause any place I hang my hat is home”
On the Street Where you Live
by Dean MartinSongwriters: Frederick Loewe, Alan Jay Lerner
“People stop and stare - they don't bother me, for there's nowhere else on earth that I would rather be
Let the time go by - I won't care if I can be here on the street where you live.”
Anyone Can Whistle
by Tom WopatSongwriter: Stephen Sondheim
“Maybe you could show me how to let go - lower my guard, learn to be free.
Maybe if you whistle, whistle for me.”
Being Alive
by Voctave (featuring David Phelps)Songwriter: Stephen Sondheim
“Someone to need you too much, Someone to know you too well
Someone to pull you up short…To put you through hell…
To give you support… is being alive”
It All Fades Away
by Jennifer Nettles (featuring Brandi Carlile)Songwriter: Jason Robert Brown
“There are places I have travelled and so many things I've seen, and it all fades away but you…”
Children Will Listen
by Eleri WardSongwriter: Stephen Sondheim
“Careful the things you say, Children will listen
Careful the things you do, Children will see and learn”
Rise Up
by Andra DaySongwriters: Jennifer Decilveo, Cassandra Monique Batie
“All we need is hope and for that we have each other. Rise Up.”
Crowded Table
by The HighwomenSongwriters: Lori Mckenna, Natalie Nicole Hemby, Brandi Marie Carlile.
“I want a house with a crowded table and a place by the fire for everyone.”
Over the Rainbow
by Eva CassidySongwriters: Harold Arlen, E.y. Harburg
“Somewhere over the rainbow, skies are blue…
and the dreams that you dare to dream really do come true.”
A Million Dreams
by PinkSongwriters: Benj Pasek, Justin Paul
“I think of what the world could be - a vision of the one I see
A million dreams is all it's gonna take…a million dreams for the world we're gonna make.”
Beautiful City
by Hunter ParrishSongwriter: Stephen Schwartz
“Out of our night of struggle can we see a ray of hope - one pale thin ray reaching for the day...”
The Impossible Dream
by Luther VandrossSongwriters: Mitch Leigh, Joseph Darion
“And the world will be better for this
That one man, scorned and covered with scars
Still strove with his last ounce of courage
To reach the unreachable star”
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If I Can Help Somebody
Songwriter: Alma Bazel Androzzo
“If I can help somebody, as I'm singing the song, you know my living shall not be in vain”
Pure Imagination
Songwriters: Leslie Bricusse, Anthony Newley
“There is no life I know to compare with pure imagination
Living there, you'll be free, if you truly wish to be”
Amazing Grace
Songwriters: John Newton, Traditional
“'Twas grace that taught my heart to fear and grace my fears relieved
How precious did that grace appear the hour I first believed”
Sunday
Songwriter: Stephen Sondheim
“As we pass through arrangements of shadow
Toward the verticals of trees,
Forever…In our perfect park”
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Closer To Fine
by Brandi Carlile & Catherine CarlileSongwriters: Emily Ann Saliers, Amy Elizabeth Ray
“There’s more than one answer to these questions, pointing me in a crooked line.
And the less I seek my source for some definitive, the closer I am to fine’
Higher Love
by Whitney HoustonSongwriters: Steve Winwood, Will Jennings
“There must be a higher love - down in the heart or hidden in the stars above.”
This Is Me
by Keala SettleSongwriters: Benj Pasek, Justin Paul
“I know that there's a place for us - for we are glorious”
If We Only Have Love
by Dionne WarwickSongwriter: Jacques Brel
“If we only have love, then tomorrow will dawn, and the days of our years will rise on that morn.”
Corner of the Sky
by Matthew James ThomasSongwriter: Stephen Schwartz
“Rivers belong where they can ramble
Eagles belong where they can fly
I've got to be where my spirit can run free
Got to find my corner of the sky”
We Found Love
by 2CELLOSSongwriter: Calvin Harris
Upside Down
by Diana RossSongwriters: Bernard Edwards, Nile Rodgers
“Upside down
Boy, you turn me inside out
And, 'round and 'round”